Don’t fall into the common law marriage trap

Last week the National Centre for Social Research published findings from this year’s British Social Attitudes Survey which revealed that almost half of people in England and Wales mistakenly believe that unmarried couples who live together have a common law marriage, and enjoy the same rights as couples that are legally married.

The findings showed that 46% of those surveyed were under the impression that cohabiting couples form a common law marriage, a figure that remains largely unchanged over the last fourteen years, despite a significant increase in the number of cohabiting couples in that time. And people who have children were found to be significantly more likely to believe in common law marriage: 55% of households with children thought that common law marriage exists.

There is, of course, no such thing as a common law marriage. Merely living together does not give the parties the same rights as those who are married. As a result, the more vulnerable party can suffer severe financial hardship should a cohabiting couple separate, for example where they have interrupted their career to raise children, and where the home is owned by the other party.

It is therefore important that you do not fall into the trap of believing that just because you live with someone you automatically become their ‘common law’ spouse, and acquire the same rights as a married person.

For further information on what rights a person has upon cohabitation breakdown, see this post. If you would like specific advice as to what you can do to protect yourself if you cohabit, or as to what you can do on the breakdown of a cohabiting relationship, book an initial consultation with us by clicking the green button at the top of this page and filling in the form, or call us on 020 3904 0506.

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